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2014年1月12日星期日

Article recommendation: HOW TO BRING UP A SENSITIVE ISSUE WITH YOUR PARTNER?

This reminded me the basic rule in social life -- Always put yourself in others' shoe.
Sometimes, romantic relationship works as other relationships too.

it's definitely have times that your partner refuse to discuss the problems of both of you.
Question: How to bring up a sensitive issue with your partner?

SHort Answer provided by following article:
Invite your partner into a safe conversation with you about the issue.

"By understanding what is going on for our partners in their reluctance to address a topic, we can better empathize with them."


Three questions to ask yourself when your partner refuse to discuss:
Is he/she feeling safe to discuss about it?
Is he/she ready to discuss about it?
Is this how he/she used to solve problem?


Basically, just put yourself in his or her place, and see how it feels.
Then, you might realize the solution is just a piece of cake.

"Sometimes, as the saying goes, soft words can win hard hearts."


 http://johnbenloy.com/2013/04/sensitive-issue/

Check it out! It worth your time!